“Any living organism, at any moment in time, is either in the process of growth and living or decay and dying.”
Martha Borst
Bloom Where You Are
I look out my window and watch Mother Nature as she changes from winter to early spring. It’s a time for renewal. From the barren branches of the apple trees, tiny blossoms emerge. The juice of life in the grapevines in my vineyard, long dormant and still, begins to flow and burst into buds. The daffodils push through the earth’s surface…everywhere, life is happening.
It’s immediate. Nothing can hold it back. Even areas where the fires raged only months ago, sprouts begin to grow as charcoal turns to green.
Now. Today. Nature doesn’t wait until all the conditions are right. Nature doesn’t wait for existing circumstances to improve, to blossom and bloom. It doesn’t stop being its full and vibrant self because the environment isn’t perfect. The crocus in the cold of Connecticut doesn’t delay its growth because it isn’t in warm California. It simply pushes through the earth’s crust wherever it is.
We have a lot to learn from Mother Nature about growth and living life, about blooming where we are. How much of today do we spend dreaming about and hoping for the future? How do we allow those thoughts keep us from evolving as a person… from being all we can be right now?
Caught up in our thoughts about tomorrow, we put a hold on growing. We wait to change a limiting belief or break an annoying habit. We tell ourselves, “When the pandemic is over… when I get back to work… when things are normal again.” We think further in the future…”when I have the house of my dreams… when I meet my life partner… when I am rich… then I will exercise, eat healthy, lose weight, and be the nicest, most wonderful person you have ever met!”
“Tomorrow, tomorrow, tomorrow, we strut across the stage like fools,” Shakespeare said. We allow our dreams of the future to hold us back from living life fully – today.
Some of us allow ourselves to let our dreams keep us from looking in the mirror. We put our very life force on hold as we wait for future happiness. Yet, the charred forest doesn’t wait and the flowers don’t hold back their blooms. The more we live our fullest potential today, the more rapidly our dreams are fulfilled.
It’s wonderful to have visions and dreams, but none of us knows what the future holds for sure. It’s good to plan and hope and envision our future, but never at the expense of what is happening to us today. Tomorrow is just a dream. Yesterday is but a memory. Today is when life is happening… today is the time to be all of who we can be… right now.
We’re all going through a difficult time right now, but it’s the perfect time to find just one little way you can grow… one little thing you would like to change about yourself. Perhaps you need to express more gratitude, or smile a little more, or have more patience. Don’t make it a big deal, just pick one thing and be conscious of it all week. Pay attention to it, catch yourself and change it to the new desired behavior. Practice, practice, practice – just one thing. That’s it. That’s all you have to do to grow.
Let’s not wait until life is perfect to allow ourselves to bloom. Any living organism, at any moment in time, is either in the process of growth and living or decay and dying. Let’s not wait until conditions are “right” to allow the juices within our veins to burst open with life and living. Let’s do it now.
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