I have received so many emails from you regarding your opinions and feelings about the Israeli-Hamas war. Although each has value, I cannot post them all, but I share my last two. I hope sharing all these varying comments and opinions has opened your eyes, as it has mine, to the many points of view felt by truly caring, level-headed, very intelligent people.
This is an extremely complicated problem with many moving parts, yet I hear us all struggling to find a solution. What I realize is that listening, really listening to all the varying views, has broadened my thinking and allowed me to step back and access what I know to be true.
Taking sides doesn’t work… Slaughtering people doesn’t work… letting someone obliterate an entire race doesn’t work… hate doesn’t work… being a victim and blaming others doesn’t work…
I do believe the true solution is relatively simple—but are we big enough to find it?
Are we willing to find it?
To do so, we’d have to let go of being right, and sometimes that’s more important to us than finding a solution. If there was an answer, would we be willing to let go of how we’ve got it all figured out? I do think it’s a question we each must answer…
This view is from my good friend Bob Blumenshine:
HI Martha.
I, too, am one of those people who read but normally don’t venture an opinion, but this time I have to ask a question. Like nearly everyone, I deplore the death and destruction in Gaza. I read the comments about innocent civilians being killed in Gaza and I have to ask—did the Hamas terrorists infiltrate into Gaza from somewhere else? Are they Syrian or Lebanese or Iranian? Or are they the sons and brothers and fathers of native Gazans?
If a people raise their children from birth to hate another group of people, teaches them they should annihilate those people at any cost, then houses, feeds, hides them and allows them to build bunkers and ammunition depots under their apartment buildings and hospitals, allows them to import enormous amounts of high-powered military hardware and build an incredible underground system of tunnels to hide and protect that hardware, are they truly innocent bystanders?
If they elect those same people to be the government of their country, knowing they have the most extreme and violent agenda possible, are they truly innocent? What did the citizens of Gaza expect would happen when they put Hamas in power?
My response:
I hear your point, Bob. It makes sense. Under this premise, however, does it then mean in order for Hamas to be stopped, the Israelis have to bomb ALL of Gaza?
And kill ALL the Palestinians? Then the other voice inside me continuously makes me ask the question, “Does the end justify the means? Is there no other way?”
In 1945, the US dropped two atomic bombs on an enemy who had attacked us and vowed to never surrender until they won. The Japanese people were 100% behind their gov’t and military. The result? 120,000—210,000 men, women and children were killed by the two bombs and aftereffects of radiation. It got the Japanese to surrender and lose, and we won the war against us… Justified?
And finally, this post is from my good friend, Fran Gros:
Dear Martha,
My profound respect for you knows no bounds. The current situation at hand is not one where I seek to assert my views or righteousness. It transcends territorial disputes; it’s a matter of fundamental human rights being violated.
Throughout my life, I’ve dedicated myself to learning, participating in, and educating others about the Holocaust, always holding onto the important values of #NeverForget and #NeverAgain. The barbaric acts that transpired on October 7th defy any justification, period.
When there’s a call for the genocide of an entire race, there can be no resolution. Unfortunately, not everyone comprehends the gravity of this reality. Having lived in Israel for four years, with family and friends on the front lines, some who have tragically lost their lives, I can attest to the excruciating and fearful times Jews worldwide are facing. Here in New York City, as an observant Jew, I am genuinely apprehensive about being in the streets. Our community has been threatened and vandalized, and the deluge of distressing videos and posts has been overwhelming.
Just last week, I visited DC to gauge how others stand up for the Jewish people. Congresswoman Grace Meng expressed two disquieting concerns. Firstly, she encountered people who questioned why Israel deserved this attack, as if seeking justification for such an atrocity. Secondly, she voiced her apprehension about the next generation of politicians, with more than 10 showing personal agendas that conflict with our constitution. If the UN cannot recognize the wrongness of this act of terror, we are indeed in deep trouble, and my fears are compounded.
Of utmost concern are the college campuses. A friend’s child was barricaded in the library at Cornell last week, and I was involved as it was happening. The police were genuinely fearful for the safety of Jewish students, and their inability to protect them is alarming.
It’s disheartening when the world rallies behind something they do not truly understand, with no resolution in sight. This is not a war between Palestinians and Israelis; it’s a conflict involving a terrorist organization that controls Gaza, backed by Iran with support from other countries.
I find myself at a loss for words, and fear for our lives here is a stark reality. It’s bewildering that in 2023, this is the world we inhabit. The war has only just begun, and the days ahead promise more bloodshed, not limited to Israel. I fervently hope my intuition is proven wrong; I wish not to be right.
If you have the fortitude to review the factual accounts The October 7th Hamas-Massacre, you’ll discover that most of these videos were captured by the terrorists for public celebration.
I’m here. Willing to support, discuss, to share viewpoints, and to provide insights—from your loving friend, the Jewish Virgo.
With love and gratitude,
Fran
My response:
In the second World War, in an attempt to avoid violence, millions of Jews chose to passively respond to Hitler’s edict to round them up. The result was for six million to be loaded into box cars, which led them to the gas ovens. I ask all of us, “What would have happened if they had fought for their right to exist? What does #NeverForget and #NeverMore mean to each of us?”
How does one save oneself without also becoming a monster?